I'm still not sure I know the right answer to that, but we certainly tried! More on that below. But first, let me explain. We were referred to Ms. Stephanie five years ago. I was pregnant with Brantley and Stephanie (and her in-home daycare) came highly recommended by one of my best co-workers, who had sent her son there the previous five(ish) years. He, however, was headed to kindergarten that fall and we were in need of a spot for Brantley, who would be 3.5 months old, later that October…