Here is our master bedroom today: Oh wait, we’ve got to back and look at the BEFORE! My goal? A soothing, calm, neutral retreat without spending much. Do you know what I love? When the rest of the house is in chaos (okay, maybe I don’t love that?), the kitchen is hot and messy, and I come into our bedroom and the bed is made, it is cool from the fan, and it is quiet. Sometimes I shut the door and try to soak in the calm before I go back to the madness. You know I adore my kids, I love our…